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Although I'm not as zealous about organized religion as she is, I've always trusted God would guide us in our plans to get married and build a family. I was flabbergasted when she told me she can't be with me because God has more important plans for her right now. This is not the first time she's pulled away from me because she needed to be closer to the church.

Dear Jilted For Jesus: I respect any person's religious beliefs and think we should all explore and embrace our spiritual sides. However, her claiming divine intervention has instructed her to leave you is a copout. It's interesting how she used religion to justify her actions. It's even more interesting she hasn't considered using a little thing called "free will."

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